3 ways to do it:
1. Progressive Potty Training
2. Casual Potty Training
3. Relaxed Potty Training
Progressive
- focus, repetitive, and concentrated attention
- needs a block of time (1-4 days)
- snacks (increase thirst & rewards)
- drinks (increase urine output & rewards)
- equipment needed (teddy bear or baby doll to demonstrate with your child from drinking to cleaning up)
- before you start (1-2 days before), talk it up and get her motivated
- wake-up, put on training pants, eat a bland breakfast, and watch with doll
- step 1 – fill sippy cup with motivational drink and use with the doll
- step 2 – check doll for dryness and praise for being dry and then give her a treat
- step 3 – put doll on potty and put water beforehand in the potty, make a pssss sound and reward doll for going potty (treat & praise), wipe, pull up pants, empty potty in toilet, flush, and wash hands.
- step 4 – ask your child if she is dry, if yes, then she gets a reward.
- step 5 – the child sits on the potty for 4-10 minutes (read to her, watch a DVD, etc.) but make sure never to a point of frustration. If there is no potty yet and the child gets bored/active, try again in 20 minutes. Show your child the double reward in your hand. If she goes – praise, treat, and can call dad or grandma/papal. Make sure to keep asking, “Are you dry?” and “Do you have to go potty?”.
- reward the right things: For staying dry & clean, not only for going potty. The why of potty training is staying dry and the how is going potty in the potty.
- staying dry and clean are the objective and reward. If you are getting that then you are half way there!
Casual and Relaxed
- wait if your family is going through a transition (move, illness, new baby, etc.)
- use the potty chair with your child on a regular basis (before & after naps, bed time, when they wake up, etc.)
- be at home 2-3 days at 1st and be on a consistent routine
- reward for being dry and clean, not just for going potty in the potty
- have patience
*I would recommend reading On Becoming Potty Wise for more details on potty training.*